TH1RTEEN R3ASONS WHY, by Jay Asher
Posted by DBRLTeen on Thursday, March 26th, 2009
Suicide is the third leading cause of death in the United States for young people aged 15 to 24. Of course the only thing many adults can think of to say about this issue is “DON’T!!!” – such a waste to end your life due to temporary circumstances or feelings. So this book by Jay Asher is a good way to think and talk about this serious issue. And the author had a great idea – after high school student Hannah commits suicide, her classmates start receiving a series of cassette tapes in the mail from the girl, who recorded her thoughts and feelings about how they mistreated her. The book is a kind of dialogue between the girl’s voice on the tapes, and the thoughts of Clay, one of her classmates who receives the tapes.
It is difficult to decide whether to recommend this book or not. Although it is thought-provoking, our concern is that some readers may feel Hannah was justified in killing herself because of mistreatment by her classmates. Was she? Or was she just trying to hurt the people who hurt her – understandable maybe, but not really very nice. Teenagers treat each other poorly all the time – is that because they’re mean, thoughtless, and uncaring, or just young and still learning how much unhappiness their actions can cause others? Should Hannah have tried different ways of dealing with her situation, and would they have worked? Are there really high schools where so many students are so bad?
This is a well-written, thought-provoking, “can’t put it down” kind of book, a great basis for discussion of this important issue. But don’t forget it’s only fiction, and no one should base critical life decisions on fiction!
Know someone who needs to talk about feelings of sadness, loneliness, depression or suicide? Suggest they call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Their website is:
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org




